A person's upbringing is very important. it shows others how you are brought up by your parents, and also indirectly means what kind of a person your parents are.
For me, i am proud to say my parents are friendly people, and therefore i can go crazy with my friends, and if you come up to know me better, I can say without shame that i am a ridiculously fun and amazing person.
But some ppl, their parents are loners. their children are loners too, with bad temper and very stingy. they dun welcome guests into their houses, even if they do, they dun even offer you a drink or food. They just eat by themselves, and sometimes even complain about the guests being too noisy. so impolite! So what if your parents are from a top university in spore? no manners, perhaps their parent's mothers never teach them to
ke ren lai, kan pa pa pa pa bu zai jia
ta qing ke ren xian zuo xia, zai jing yi bei cha (or you want gong cha?!) or maybe koi?
the parents, i think, never teach their children sing this song before, becos they themselves also dun no how to sing.
Not like my parents, they offer you treats, and really welcome any one to our house. Although our hse is not very big, bt at least, we have manners.
And, upbringing also tells how many relationships you can have.
like for example, a person who is stingy, will probably not have any gf in their lives. Because girls are materialistic, this goes out to every girl. and so, if your MOTHER teach you to be very stingy, you will also be stingy, and will gu du zhong lao. (means forever alone, alone forever...)
But, if your mother, teach you to spend on the correct things, that means ur mother is a great person, and knows how to teach the child to be a great person. This child would probably have many great relationships in life!!! isnt that wonderful???
If you want to go after a girl, you need to be caring. just my 2 cents...
good upbringing can make you into a good person that everyone look up to, but bad upbringing can also bring you down to hell with ppl(ghosts) looking down on you. i mean, u cant choose your upbringing, bcos u cannot choose ur parents. But you can CHOOSE what kind of person you want to be, and not always listen to your parents.
Especially for those who wants to be, or already became a mama's boy, that means your upbringing is DEFINITELY AND CONFIRMED not good.
Those who are daddy's girl, have good upbringing!!! you may ask me, why mama's boy is not gd, but daddy's girl is good, becos that means the girl is very pure, and willing to listen to the father, and so would not get cheated. But for mama's boy, they are not like girls, can be taken advantage off, boys do not have to worry about that. But yet, they are a big man, a big man makes own decisions, dun have to listen to MAMA. Those guys simply have no goals in life, cannot big decisions by themselves, and mum is the god.
hallelujah, praise the lord.
for example, you want to marry a girl u love. your mum say no, i dun like her becos she prettier than me. so this guy would sure listen to mother. and wat happen to girl? sad? depressed?
then my advice to the guy is that, you go marry your mother!!!!!!!!! jkjk, no offence.......
mama's boy's are such a great turnoff. But im sure, daddy's girls are good girls. :)
What kind of person do you want to be? you decide.
♥ You're Lurving me @
7:56 AM
ღ Tuesday, May 17, 2011
♥ Love Dai Yang tian ! ♥
I am so sad.
my hotmail met serious problems and none of my frens volunteered to help.
i srsly dun know what to do with my hotmail.
but thankfully, jiahao helped me( although my hotmail still had some probs, like i still cant log in), he helped me to set up a forum to solve my probs. thanks! with frens like him, 1 is enuf.
now if my hotmail is not recovered, then i will have to re add my msn contacts.
i hope u guys can help me by telling me your personal email adds.
nth to write about. signing off
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7:10 AM
ღ Friday, May 6, 2011
♥ Love Dai Yang tian ! ♥
Ok, i know u guys are very interested in my dentist, but i will push that aside for a while.
Becos i found something that is more important, That is our future.
All i can say is that pls open ur eyes to the widest when u vote, what kind of future do u want when u stay in spore? do you know why there are countless spore immigrants in other countries? tts bcos the living standards in spore is too high.
do you know why there is aging pop in spore? bcos the standard is so high, no one wants to give birth so early so they can work more and earn more. and so of them study till a very old age with no children.
and now healthcare. with many ppl giving birth at old age, healthcare plays an impt part, its so ex, ppl are neglecting their illness due to high cost.
and also, if ur are marrying early, that wat abt housing issues? all of them are given to PRs.
Singaporeans are becoming 2nd cls citizens and do u want it?
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